This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody's job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn't do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.
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Friday, July 30, 2010
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Why Men Just Don't Get It! by Rabbi Moss
Question of the Week:
My husband just doesn't seem to get it. He came home over an hour late last night without so much as calling to tell me that he won't be on time. This is the fifth time he has done this and we are only married three months! It may seem petty but it upsets me greatly. I don't want him to see me as a nagging wife. What should I do?
Answer:
This may be disappointing, but it sounds like your husband is acting like a pretty normal guy. And you sound pretty normal too. That's why you are having this problem.
There is something you need to know about men. They are loners. Being in a relationship is unnatural to them. They do not automatically think about how their actions affect someone else. The default emotional state of a man is loneliness.
This is not true of women. A woman has an innate sense of relationship, of connection to others. A woman naturally shares of herself and bonds with others. A man does not. She is a relationship being, he is a lonely being.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Friday, July 16, 2010
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Are Your Hands Clean? by Rabbi Moss
Question of the Week:
What is the meaning behind the ritual washing of hands before meals? Was this some ancient Jewish version of hygiene?
What is the meaning behind the ritual washing of hands before meals? Was this some ancient Jewish version of hygiene?
Friday, July 9, 2010
Thursday, July 8, 2010
A Love that Never Dies by Rabbi Moss
Question of the Week:
Quick question: why do you dip the challah in salt?
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
The Bagel Theory
It all started when my friend Dodie Miller-- who wears a kippah -- was back in college and suffering through a tedious lecture. As the professor droned on, a previously-unknown young woman leaned over and whispered in his ear: 'This class is as boring as my Zayde's seder.'
You see, the woman knew that she did not 'look' Jewish, nor did she wear any identifying signs like a Star of David. So foregoing the awkward declaration, 'I'm Jewish,' the girl devised a more nuanced -- and frankly, cuter -- way of heralding her heritage.
This incident launched a hypothesis which would henceforth be known as the Bagel Theory.
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Friday, July 2, 2010
Refine Your Search for a Soulmate by Rabbi Moss
Question of the Week:
My Jewishness is making it harder for me to find love. The more I get involved in Jewish life, the less options I have for girls to date. To be honest, it is making me hesitate before becoming more observant. What should I do, take on more Judaism and limit my options, or keep my options open and put the Jewish thing on hold?
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